It's stupid to argue whether someone believes in something or not, if you don't believe it, well good for you, but don't try to convince the other one that he/she is wrong in his/her beliefs. That's whats happening way too much, and is the cause of many many quarrels, fights and even wars. "Spread the word" is just the biggest crap ever, you can tell others about what you belief, but you'll have to accept that persons personal beliefs too. All religions force in some way their beliefs to others, and thats just what the problem is. Beliefs are just an escape of reality, a thing to hold on to when you're having difficult times and maybe a motivation to keep going. Anyway, back on topic: marriage is originally invented by the church, but the way it's integrated into our society has changed the meaning from religion-based to a more general; someone loves someone else, so marriage is more the bond of those 2 persons. It has nothing to do with man-female relationships anymore. Those who oppose gay marriage should wait for a sec, and think about "why am i opposing it ?". Is it because the church says so, or is it because i believe so? If you always belief the church more than your own beliefs then you're a narrowminded person that beliefs everything you hear. Maybe you should consider beliefs that have been written down as actual "guidelines" or "considerations" than actual facts or laws.