drinking with a group of friends is lots of fun. unfortunately, yeah, like you said some people don't realize they turn into !@#$%^&*bags when they drink too much. But a few beers is good for socializing. The problem is typically when people go "out" they go to either a club or a bar... which has 1. drinking 2. socializing and 3. dancing all of which can be fun but after like 3 hours it just gets stupid... parties are great if you know like 50% of the people and there's lots of stuff to do, not just drink and talk. drinking games are always fun. It's funny though how people act when they drunk... there's like !@#$%^&*bags, annoying people (typical girl reaction), more rare are ASSS (at least among my friends), and then there's the person who just passes out or throws up everywhere or both. But the much more typical reaction is to just be more social and easier to talk to (plus having passed out people to make fun of always helps). One thing I noticed is that after people drink a lot the typical conversation gets stupider and stupider. This is probably why it's easier to talk to people: it's a lot easier to talk about something stupid. I'm sure if you went to a party and stayed sober for a few hours you'd notice that it's hard to have a conversation with anyone. It's like everyones IQ drops 20 points and bam, suddenly there's a million dumb things to talk about. Beer's not for everyone though. If you don't like annoying people try marijuana (without drinking). You also find lots interesting of things to talk about, enjoy lots of tasty food, and don't wake up with hangovers not remembering the night before. Plus not being able to die from taking too much is always a plus!