Most young women like to be treated bad, for some reason ( this wears off with age so be careful), this only set you up for wild angry sex if you persue her and most likely if you do she will respond favorably. If she does not respond favorably, why do you care (my feeling is you like her a bit or you would not be at all concerned aout this)? Your message was for your friend, she shouldn't be snooping in on his phone and in a round about way you thought she was attractive. If you appologized and she is still angry give her time and it will wear off and if it doesn't, so what. This is a typical guy thing to say, but women are like buses, if you miss one there will be another one in 15 minutes..crude, but true, there are millions of women out there, and you have to ride a few "buses" to find the the one that takes you on the best route. Also, don't always go for looks, even though it is somewhat important, there are some great women out there that you might miss if you are looking for a certain type. Think outside the box and you might just run into an unlikely sole mate or at the very least a good roll in the hay for a few months. Dr. Love....