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well...thank you for even bothering to read any of my posts. i said, at age 18, that's when age begins to not matter. thanks for trying though. and...i've taken maturity into considation and did state that age 14 is when experiences take it's toll. i said, at this time, MOST have not matured. they're still learning and are in the process of maturing.

based on this...the preteen/teen stage can last a long time. it's safe to say that MOST 14 year olds are still in this stage. their maturity level isn't as high.

i thought some of the people on here were actually intellectual. apparently, not. if you can't accept opinions from others, then you're !@#$%^&*ing ignorant. and you call me close minded? please learn the meaning of that before using it. clearly, there were 2 arguments, 2 opinions. blinded by your own situation (attraction), which makes you biased on your opinion, you say i made "stupid remarks". BUT if you had any intelligence in you, you would put your situation aside and look at it from my point of view like i did with yours. i recognized that perhaps it's different where you come from. i took a step back from my own opinion and did that. lol...and, my opinions were based on experiences, observations and knowledge that i have learned in school in terms of socialization. i didn't pull that outta my !@#$%^&*. lmaoooooooooo. you're !@#$%^&*ing dumb. Denver ain't even playing Houston. LOLOLOLOLOL. Denver ain't even playing Houston if they get into the second round. you just made yourself look like a fool. now, hang a rope on the ceiling and commit to it, thanks.

AND i think it's hilarious that you're telling a FEMALE how the girl's mind and socialization works. mind you, i've been there before. guys and girls mature differently. so, i KNOW the mindset of most 14 year olds.

so, you think a 14 year old can absorb more knowledge than an 18 year old? let's be real now. lmaooo@you. at age 14, that is when you make the most mistakes in order to prevent them from happening again in the future. how am i being naive? do you wanna explain? i've explained MY OPINION. you're a straight up fool for thinking that just because someone thinks differently, they have "mental mechinations" of someone younger. i can !@#$%^&*ure you that my intelligence > yours. i've accepted everyone's point of view. it's you that is ignorant.

be realistic...as a father, you will never be alright with your 14 year old dating a 17 year old. you may say that it depends on your daughter's level of maturity. BUT as a father, you will still treat your daughter as if she were younger, so what does that tell you about your impression of her maturity? MOST fathers don't begin to let go until age 18, when they've accepted that their daughter has grown up and matured.

no, it's not entirely usesless. age tells you a lot. it tells you how much knowledge the person has. take into consideration the vast majority claim to have learned a lot when in fact they haven't. age tells you where they're at in life. 14 year olds...are not stable.. emotionally, mentally, etc.

My daughter isn't going to date until she's 30 anyway, so I don't have to worry about that. heh. let's be realistic lol. if you don't let her date, she'll do it behind your back.

The world is a large place. Don't think that your observations cover everything everywhere. What may be true where you live may not be true everywhere else, that's all I'm trying to say. You say that most younger girls who look for older men are hoes, well, until you've met every young girl looking for an older man, then you can't say with certanity that your opinion is true. While it may still be your opinion, it's based on the cir!@#$%^&*stances that you've observed, and that doesn't nessisarily mean it applys to everyone. again...have i not said "maybe where you come from, it's different"? i've repeated myself over and over again, that the observations made cover where i grew up. BUT being in school and learning about socialization which includes the reasons behind girls making such decisions, i'm sure i can use that and apply it to this situation, no? if you went and asked a sociologist/psychologist today...i can guarantee you that they will have a list of the reasons leading up to such choices. THANK YOU. that's exactly what i've been saying. finally, somebody who's looking at all the aspects.

let me rephrase that...MOST GIRLS who are 14 and look for older guys, MOST of the time turn out to be hoes. BUT i also said that this is coming from where i grew up and what i observed in MY area. it's the truth, whether you like it or not. flip the script...you're the father a 14 year old. you're telling me you would be perfectly fine with her dating a 17 year old? what do you think the mindset of a 14 year old is? lol...are you telling me it's natural to WANT to be with an older man? "guys my age are too immature, i'm looking for a mature one" is all bull!@#$%^&*. that's just an excuse, and it's sad that girls get away with saying stupid things like that. any SMART girl would know, even older guys can be immature.

so...you're saying that, despite people coming from different social classes, ethnicities, countries...which would lead to different behaviours and socialization, that observing all this, makes somebody close minded? lol. since when does having your own opinion make you uneducated? your own opinions are based on observations, what you've seen and what you've heard.

LOL...when have i said that she is a hoe? i specifically said...MOST 14 year olds who do look for older men, are hoes. MOST...would you like me to define that word for you? and...my mind goes much further than yours would ever go, thanks. you can't handle the truth...lmaoooo, that's sad. sorry if my opinions come off blunt, that's how i am, deal with it.

Yet you're only 18. lol..i've never dated an older guy. i'm gonna be 19 soon. so...just because i'm 19 it's impossible to observe for years? how do you know i didn't start seeing this when i was 14? i went to school with most of the girls i'm talking about. i know of girls who turned out like that. maybe where you're from it's different. in not-so-rich areas, anytime you have a young girl/older guy...that's jailbait. and the younger girl is referred to as a hoe, because 90% of the time, she is one.

so i'm guessing whoever posts lasts wins?

Not all older guys are sleeze balls. lmaoooo...most are. the mindset of guys are so predictable.

no i win =)

Or they've just matured faster, and the guys their age don't cut it. There's nothing wrong with a 14 year old dating a 17 year old in my mind. I know neither of the people, so I can't really judge. Becides, everyone's different. To make a judgement based on their age is pointless since you know nothing about the people. okay...everyone may be different. BUT at age 14, how different from other 14 year olds can this girl be? they're still at the age where they're finding themselves. this is from observation that i've done for years... i know 14 year olds who specifically look for guys 3-4 years older. what do you think those older guys are gonna do to her?

and until she's 18...17 is pushing it, 3 years is a BIG difference. i can tell you that most girls who look for older men at such a young age are hoes. or they turn out to be, because by age 16, they've had half the town in them.

answer this...if your 14 year old daughter came home and told you "hey dad, i'm !@#$%^&*ing a 17 year old boy at my school" what would you say? lol, i'm sure you would not be okay with it. think from both sides, stupid.

LMAOOOOOOOO

if you like younger girls, then go ahead lol. in my opinion, i think it's wrong. probably because of your age range. like Cancer said...if you were older, it wouldn't matter.

you don't have to be all mean about it lol.

what's the point of this? lol.

i read the first couple of sentences then stopped. i was never good at physics, it's all complicated lol.

lol that's mean.