So a good friend of mine is getting married, problem is, she's marring a total !@#$%^&* bag. He used to be a friend of mine, but pulled some pretty dirty and low !@#$%^&* durring my best friend's wedding (most of which she doesn't know about, as far as I know), and frankly I'd be happy spending a few months in jail for assault just to beat him within an inch of his life. She doesn't know I think the world would be a better place without him in it, and she'll probably never know. Oh, he also thinks I still like him, mainly because I don't want to damage my friendship with his fiance. Anyway, do I go to the wedding in show of support to her and sit on the bride's side just to spite him, or do I just not go at all? Frankly, I don't agree with this marriage because I think she's too good for him, but she's also been a long time friend who's been more of an inspiration to me than 90% of the people I know. Also, the reservation says " ___ of 1 will be attending" which kind of seems insulting to me, even though I'm single. It almost says to me, "you're not good enough to get a date to come with you". I could be wrong though...I tend not to trust anyone these days. I've been back stabbed so many times that I barely trust my own mother, which is probably why I'm still single, but that's a whole 'nother can of worms we won't open right now.