I don't think the Bible says anything about women being the boss of the home, and i don't think this is common in the history of Christianity either.... maybe post-war America/Western-Europe, but that's about it. But you're right, both books were written in more sexist times, and both books can thus be interpreted in sexist ways that can culminate in wife-beating. TJ: One case or 50 cases, it doesn't matter, Christianity has more than one case also. When you interpret the Bible or the Quran in a particular way you can justify it. that's nto about the bible, or christianity, that was the hebrew culture of that time. Note: Hebrew culture and christianity are completely different things! In both religions subordination can be interpreted as "he has the right to beat you". Can't you see how telling a man that a woman is inferior to him would lead to the man beating the woman in some cases? Until you produce one scrap of evidence that the quran says "you can beat your wife", then i'm going to assume both religions are as sexist as each-other, and that this sexism is what leads to wife-beatings in both religions. The obvious intepretation? What about this intepretation makes it obvious? I mean, i know there has been alot of media attention for this word since 9/11... did you just suck all that up along with "Saddam = evil" and "atheists aren't patriotic"? I'm absolutely !@#$%^&*ing astounded. Yea i think thats true. TJ: I'm pretty sure it's not normal in Islam either. I've already explained how sexism in a holy-book can lead to the beating of women; in the same way "thou shalt not kill" leads to Christians killing abortion doctors, or the way homosexuals are treated. If you can't see how mild, carefully-written, disgust of a group of people within a holy book can manifest into full-blown hatred with a justification for violence, then it's probably because you don't want to understand it. I don't know the actual verse, but I know for a fact that in the bible it says plainly that women need to be treated with respect, and that men must protect them. I just don't remember the actually verse, I'll look into it. ALSO, what christians used to do, is not the same as what they were supposed to do. What I mean is that even though many people called/call themselves 'christians' they didn't/don't actually do what being a christian entails.