FMBI Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 (edited) I'm the male counterpart to those "really sweet girls". Audry: never fear, there are many men out there who aren't subconsciously considering your ASSS every time you try to have a serious conversation with them. Edited October 1, 2008 by Finland My BorgInvasion
Aceflyer Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 (edited) Seriously. Men who 'subconsciously' do anything of the sort to all attractive women they encounter are chauvinistic pigs, IMHO. Edited October 1, 2008 by Aceflyer
Audry Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 Audry: never fear, there are many men out there who aren't subconsciously considering your ASSS every time you try to have a serious conversation with them. I know... But they are usually the ugleh kind that cant get laid and wont try a move on my, knowing i'll deny.
Aceflyer Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 If you're being honest, then you're probably hanging in the wrong crowds.
Chambahs Posted October 1, 2008 Author Report Posted October 1, 2008 ASSS? Audry has ASSS? SINCE WHEN? HIYOOO
Samapico Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 I heard she reached puberty 2 days ago, they just popped out
FMBI Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 (edited) ASSS do not "pop out", there are 5 stages of mammary gland development. Edited October 1, 2008 by Finland My BorgInvasion
Audry Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 Dont hate... they are small but oh so there. -.-
BlueGoku Posted October 1, 2008 Report Posted October 1, 2008 I'm talking genuine friendship where you, you know, actually hang out with the other person often. I have tons of female acquaintances where there are no feelings from either party. If you hang out with a girl enough one of you will develop feelings for the other, if they weren't already there to begin with. So to reiterate, my definition of friends is someone you hang out with often.
rootbear75 Posted October 2, 2008 Report Posted October 2, 2008 Seriously. Men who 'subconsciously' do anything of the sort to all attractive women they encounter are chauvinistic pigs, IMHO.so you just called yourself a chauvinistic pig since subconsciously all men are wired for one thing: Sex.of course people act on it in different ways, such as pushing it back or just letting it take it's course, but it's still there
Aceflyer Posted October 2, 2008 Report Posted October 2, 2008 Seriously. Men who 'subconsciously' do anything of the sort to all attractive women they encounter are chauvinistic pigs, IMHO.so you just called yourself a chauvinistic pig since subconsciously all men are wired for one thing: Sex.of course people act on it in different ways, such as pushing it back or just letting it take it's course, but it's still there I take offense to your sexist comment, root. Re Blue's post: Even so, from personal experience I have to say I still cannot agree entirely. Although I will grant that your post is probably true for many or even most people.
rootbear75 Posted October 2, 2008 Report Posted October 2, 2008 Seriously. Men who 'subconsciously' do anything of the sort to all attractive women they encounter are chauvinistic pigs, IMHO.so you just called yourself a chauvinistic pig since subconsciously all men are wired for one thing: Sex.of course people act on it in different ways, such as pushing it back or just letting it take it's course, but it's still there I take offense to your sexist comment, root. Re Blue's post: Even so, from personal experience I have to say I still cannot agree entirely. Although I will grant that your post is probably true for many or even most people.how the !@#$%^&* is it sexist?! its there. look at biology and anatomy...
»Lynx Posted October 2, 2008 Report Posted October 2, 2008 If you follow instinct, you're a chauvinistic pig. If you question the logic above, you're a sexist !@#$%^&*.
Aceflyer Posted October 2, 2008 Report Posted October 2, 2008 The comment the way you originally said it sounded sexist, root. If you are merely talking in the sense of anatomy, then women are just as wired for sex as men are.
rootbear75 Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 The comment the way you originally said it sounded sexist, root. If you are merely talking in the sense of anatomy, then women are just as wired for sex as men are. it's been proven that men are more wired for sex than women are, since women only lay an egg once a month, and men create sperm on an exponential basis
Aceflyer Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 (edited) Personally I think it's related to the environment. I arrived at this based on a little personal experiment I've been conducting on and off over the past year or so... When I hung out with lots of guys, and read plain erotic material 'designed' for men, my sex drive went up, and mentally I predominantly desired 'no-strings-attached' 'casual' sex without romance. When I ditched the guys and the above-mentioned plain erotic material, spent more time with my (platonic) female friends, and read lots of erotic romantic novels written by and for women, my sex drive went down somewhat, and mentally I predominantly desired romance, with sex being optional and not a major concern. Edited October 3, 2008 by Aceflyer
»Lynx Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 You can't compare two different environments against each other, and say that is what determines the differences between two genders - as that simply defeats the object. Going by that logic, you could brain wash either gender to only have sex with cats, and to those brainwashed people, it would simply seem normal to have sex with cats. However, I'm sure if you were to bring up a bunch of humans in a completely neutral environment, which isn't pressured by the day to day social conditioning we have in our lives, I'm pretty sure that the males would be predominantly determined to have sex. .. However, it's quite an impossible experiment to carry out, although, I'm pretty sure it's quite a coacher logic to run by. As for the sex novels somewhat lowering your sex drive - There's an explanation... You were reading lots of erotic romantic novels which made you interested in something else... That's a social conditioning effecting your prime logic which has been hard-wired into you - and it's not exactly surprising. It's not hard (well it might be) to have an attractive chick in front of you saying "!@#$%^&* ME" and you say.. "Nope.." - even if you really wanted to dip your rod in her honey pot you can still resist it as we're not overpowered by our urges. I'd say that you've read all of these novels, and you simply got more interest in something which has been said in the novel (some blah romance) and you wished upon that for yourself.. (making you !@#$%^&*.. j.k ) Whatever, anyway... I have a 'platonic' friend coming around, and I swear - we're not going to have sex or anything.. she's just a friend. ... losers. -Lynx
»doc flabby Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 (edited) Going by that logic, you could brain wash either gender to only have sex with cats, and to those brainwashed people, it would simply seem normal to have sex with cats.This probably can be done. There are many cults that have brainwashed suggestable people into stranger and sicker things. The comment the way you originally said it sounded sexist, root. If you are merely talking in the sense of anatomy, then women are just as wired for sex as men are. it's been proven that men are more wired for sex than women are, since women only lay an egg once a month, and men create sperm on an exponential basisIncorrect. Women are wired just as much if not more so than men for sex. Women want sex just as much as men. Sex drive and sexual pleasure from sex are unrelated to gender.Personally I think it's related to the environment. I arrived at this based on a little personal experiment I've been conducting on and off over the past year or so... When I hung out with lots of guys, and read plain erotic material 'designed' for men, my sex drive went up, and mentally I predominantly desired 'no-strings-attached' 'casual' sex without romance. When I ditched the guys and the above-mentioned plain erotic material, spent more time with my (platonic) female friends, and read lots of erotic romantic novels written by and for women, my sex drive went down somewhat, and mentally I predominantly desired romance, with sex being optional and not a major concern.Both situations you describe only demonstrart the effects of social influence on your thought processes. Hang around with any group and you start to become like them or at least take on aspects of that group. You do this inorder to fit in with the group. Suppose you hang around a group of women who had lots of casual sex would you have seen the same results? I'm personally amazed by the amount of bs you guys have swallowed up from the media on what each gender is like. Men and women are very similar. Romance is a weird social construct in itself. If you think carefully about what is often called "romantic" is compareable with prositiution. You buy a girl some nice gifts, pay for her dinner, take her some place she finds nice, all in the hope that she sleeps with you? Coming back to the OP there are many girls like the guy in the OP who are "friends" with a guy they fancy. Its not just a guy thing. Edited October 3, 2008 by doc flabby
Hellonearth Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 what the !@#$%^&*.... i just wasted my time
Incomplete Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 I've always been of the opinion that it is impossible for a guy and a girl to be just friends and that one of them always has feelings for the other. I agree. Human will is only so strong. That sounds so weak. Human will is stronger than you think. i'd be all over themCould sound like a death threatI also rofl'd at that I'm talking genuine friendship where you, you know, actually hang out with the other person often. I have tons of female acquaintances where there are no feelings from either party. If you hang out with a girl enough one of you will develop feelings for the other, if they weren't already there to begin with. So to reiterate, my definition of friends is someone you hang out with often.That is pretty true.
candygirl Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 It is possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends. I have many guy friends.
X`terrania Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 When I ditched the guys and the above-mentioned plain erotic material, spent more time with my (platonic) female friends, and read lots of erotic romantic novels written by and for women, my sex drive went down somewhat, and mentally I predominantly desired romance, with sex being optional and not a major concern. Oh god, AHAHAHAHA. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHA. You guys are honestly pretty !@#$%^&*ing pathetic; if you were an actual man you wouldn't need any of this bull!@#$%^&* !@#$%^&*istance, oh lord. Women enjoy company, women enjoy men who are fun to be around, and if you're that kind of guy then go out there and get laid. Everyone wants to !@#$%^&*; it's in our blood, you just need to get around the little chunk of anxiety that's blocking you from doing so. and ace, i'd like to see a photo of some of the "women" you've been with, and possibly a receipt from your visa for the night you spent with them
FMBI Posted October 3, 2008 Report Posted October 3, 2008 What would happen if X's and Ace's posts were reversed? and x, i'd like to see a photo of some of the "women" you've been with, and possibly a receipt from your visa for the night you spent with them Worth the 5 seconds it took me to delete the extra material. o_O
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